Wednesday, September 9, 2009

4 Tips For Making Impromptu Talks

Tip #1. Condition Yourself Mentally To Speak Impromptu - If you're in a meeting keep asking yourself what you would say if you were called upon at that specific moment. By doing so, you'll be one-step ahead should someone call upon you.



Tip #2. Dive Into An Example Immediately - To gain the attention of everyone, begin with a story that touches the emotions of the people in the room. There are three reasons for you to do this. They are:



1. You'll immediately free yourself of the necessity to think hard about your next sentence; experiences are easily recounted even in impromptu situations.

2. You'll enlist the audience's attention right away and get them to "be part of the event" by using their imagination. This is a powerful tool in the story telling business.

3. You will give yourself an opportunity to warm-up to the subject. Think about the story, the highs and lows, the lesson learned or the outcome. Remember this: the lesson learned or the story being told can be sad, funny or serious.



Tip #3. Speak With Animation And Force - Everyone's body and mind are interconnected, so if you speak with energy, your external animation will have a beneficial effect upon your mental processes. It also projects enthusiasm to the listeners, which makes your speech a lot more interesting. Other powerful components are: walk around the room, touch someone's shoulders to get them into the story, point out others in room who were part of the story. Don't forget to look everyone in the eye.



Tip #4. Don't Talk Impromptu; Give An Impromptu Talk - It's not enough just to ramble on and string together a number of unconnected events. You must keep your ideas logically grouped around a central thought so you can get your point across. Your examples should support your central idea(s).



Summary: At some point in our careers, we will be asked to speak unexpectedly. Speaking impromptu can be stressful, but following these techniques can make the process much easier to handle.


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